Getting a Girl: Blind Dates
Many people say: Blind dates are bad, dangerous, the kind of things only very needy men do. Think what you want, but in reality there's a difference. If you live in a densely populated area and you have the correct age for the specific online community you want to attack, you can easily pull off a few dates a week without much time investment, At least after some practice. Also, it's simply not true, that all the girls in the chatrooms are ugly, crazy or totally useless. It's again a number's game, and often enough, the numbers are very favorable There are a lot of beautiful girls who will never respond to a street or dancing pick up, but still go to a chatroom to meet interesting new people. If you furthermore display a personality apart from all the other men she knows, it's your game!
Preparation
Get a creative nickname, or at least one that seems polite, nonsexual. Use
animal names, avoid allusions with sexy stars and keep your appearance out
of it, no matter how good your looks are! Things like Jamy81, FreeJamy, Tiger,
GoGoTigger all are acceptable, unacceptable are: Juan22cm, SexyLatino, LDFucker,
KamasutraExpert... you get the idea
Choose an online community to go hunting in. You need something with people
in your area. There are always nationwide chat sites, and regional ones. However,
in the regional channels of the nationwide ones, there's mostly more traffic!
Set yourself a maximum distance you want to travel.
Approaching
Approach girls with "Hi" or something similarly innocent, ask them
a question immediately afterwards (not waiting for a reaction), like "how
are you?"
If she refuses to answer, try something like "Come on, lower your standards
a bit and talk with me, like I did!" - Rebound
Use one of the
more jocular approaches
Create a romantic interesting question like: "Have you ever found someone
you trusted from the beginning though it was totally irrational?"
Fluff talk or talk about romance. Depends... If you find a girl that likes
to talk, then you've got one that is very comfortable to work with!
Do not deliver anything about your personality, profession, looks, whatever
unless she asks.
You want to know only a few facts of her: Age, name, ca-location and if she
is single. Be careful with asking about her looks!
Ask for a date in less than an hour's time, even less. You don't want a chat-relationship,
do you?
The Date
Get her mobile phone number. Insist on speaking with her before the date -
This avoids all kinds of trouble.
Never meet a woman that displays overt sexual interests
Make up your mind to have fun with her no matter if she decides to participate
in your fun or not. If she really is totally cool and cold, make a bit of
fun of her. Either she cracks up or at least you have a nice evening.
End the date before she does
Always meet in a public, safe location, especially if she insists otherwise.
If she wants to meet you at your place, that's no problem for you.
Ask for a second meaning in a casual way "my friends and I want to watch
a few videos tomorrow, wanna come?"
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